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i experienced the most magical performance last friday, and no, it wasn’t a magic act… it was sigur ros.

this magnificent band hails from iceland and brings all the wonders of emotion when they play their music. have you ever experienced music so beautiful, that it captures time and captivate souls? sigur ros has that effect and i feel that the right love should too. call me idealistic, but i believe that you will feel the magic when the right person and right time locks in.

so there we were…all 8,500 of us sitting in the audience, under the open sky and beneath the sprinkling rain. then, right at the built up of their last song, with explosion of beautiful sound, came the rain. it was the perfect combination for an unforgettable experience that it triggered a ‘wanting to fall in love’ emotion within me.

I am ready and open.

sigur ros has that effect and all their fans know it. that’s why they basically sell out all their shows.

tip of the dae: go experience ’sigur ros’. if sigur ros ever roll around to a city near you, do yourself a favor and go see them. also, get their new album ‘med’ to get a taste of what i’m talking about. (click in the sigur ros album at the top right of this page to get it).

has music ever opened up your heart and made you fall in love?

A sensuous kiss from my sixty-five-year-old husband still gives me a tummy twinge like I had as his date and as his new bride.But this is the tip of the monumental essence of our going-on-thirty-sixth-year marriage.

What comes to mind are those treasured words,”How do I love thee? Let me count the ways …”I love Michael more than for kisses or our shared sexuality.Love has graced into our lives,built from quiet,whispering moments.

He shows his love by his actions.He cuts and splits fire-wood in the fall and winter months,to help conserve on our energy bills.He runs errands and shops for groceries if I want to stay home and write or work on my studies.He encourages and supports me in wherever a new goal’s journey may be taking me. And I swear that this man has more faith than I do in my dreams,what I can accomplish,and me.I love this about him.

In 1976,when he quit smoking,he told me,”I want to live my life with you because I love you — this is why I’m quitting.I want to be here for you and our kids.” I admired and respected him for this,but I was so young that I never knew the reality of these words of his,about his wanting to grow old with me.But here I am ,at age fifty-four,smoke-free,and loving the example he set for me.Being older has drawn me to understand “growing old together,” too.

He’s an insightful man,truly listens,and gives sound advice.He’s tender,strong,and understanding.For me,anyone who’s able to understand me like he does is near sainthood! His deep love and devotion took care of me throungh a five-year illness in the Eighties,when most men would’ve run in the other direction.

He’s humorous and tells delightful stories.It can be a story about his childhood or family,or about something that happened in the service or in college–whatever it is .he tells it with charm and knows how to entertain.He’s a very quiet man,so when he talks,I listen.

He’s my taxi driver,my lover,my friend,and mylife partner.When I found him,I found myself.As the years have grown,I fall more in love with him,in different,small ways.And in large ways too,like when he took care of the household uties and me after my major surgery last year.

I grew to love writing poetry and I compose my poems based on my true live of him.I feel that our daily activities are like unspoken ballets of things we do for each other.I’m in love with being in love with him.

And he cooks,too!

As to the seventh fairy,love is simple . She never expect to get anything else from love,because she can get them through other ways,but not love which cannot replace!

But ,for we ordinary girls,can we do it ? I believe most of them cannot. Because as to love,we count on too much,we expect to get extra value form love.We say to ourself,there is no love without reasons in the world. Why shall we love him if he could not make us promoted?Even many love guide tell us that to work well is not good as to marry well. Why cannot we get both of love and wealth that we marry an excelllent man?

Yeah, why not ? The problem is that where to find such benefits?It is very difficult for women to clearly know whether she loves him or enjoy the life which he provide. We often heard women commented on that men who are not successful and have not economic basis are not worthwhile to love.

NO woman would like to marry him as well. They lack what the rich men have, such as their breadth of mind and behavior. So are women! How many women who have never live in a rich life can cooly say like Ms.ZhangManyu, “It is terrific that you have money? I also have them!”When young, we could not understad why the rich wome would have clandestine love affair?

Especially in the feudal society, once were found, you would be submerged in the pool.But why did wome would like to risk their life to do it ? Wheather it exists pure love in the world?

I’m glad getting married didn’t cause Usher to get soft on us. I’m lovin’ his latest single, Love in This Club — the first single from his 2008 album, Here I Stand.

The beat is sick and the dance routine near the end of the video shows us why he’s still the prince of R&B.

What better way is there to show someone in your life that you love them on Valentine’s day than to show you truly care about their heart.

“Go Red For Women” celebrates the energy, passion and power we have as women to band together to wipe out heart disease and stroke - the No. 1 killer of American women.

Thanks to the participation of millions of people across the country, the color red and the red dress now stand for the ability all women have to improve their heart health and live stronger, longer lives.

The American Heart Association’s website is a fantastic resource for inspirational stories from women who’ve battled heart disease, light and easy recipes that will keep your heart happy and ways you can take part in this amazing initiative.

Take the time today to educate a loved one, and encourage them to take the Go Red Heart CheckUp online or by calling 1-888-AHA-2222 for more information.

Dating someone is as hard as actually finding a date. To some finding a date is like a needle in a haystack; to others it is like a mountain flowing with honey. When a person is on the actual date, he tends to forget what the main point of the date is all about. People date to know more about one another and find out if they are right for each other. Thats how I view dating in my very idealistic world.

For some reasons such as sheer joy, beauty or awe of the person you are dating. The dater may tend to forget all about the characteristics or traits he or she looks for. The daters may just suddenly like the person for the simplest reason of being pretty or being able to make you feel good because she looks like a model. You must try to avoid falling into a relationship where only the surface matters.

You might be pretty vain if you do think youre happy with a relationship based on the surface only. Who wouldnt want a good looking person for a date or a relationship? However these things might fail in the long run because you havent based what you really want in the characteristics of the person. Lets just say that being beautiful is an advantage that makes a person stands out from the crowd. However it is really the characteristic and attitude of a person that should make you decide if the person is right for you.

Here is another common misconception about people. If you have the looks you are considered to be having some kind of attitude. This is because you wont need to rely having a great attitude to find yourself a date. While the people who look like the average Joes and Janes would need to have a great attitude. It may be true but not for all. We should never stereotype because by doing so, will also limit a persons chance of finding a date.

Here are the usual things or characteristics that are important to some people.

Humor is a great thing to look for in a person. Being with a humorous person helps ease the tension of the date a bit. It also makes the date more fun and enjoyable.

The eyes are the windows of the soul. Eye contact would be a great way to learn more about the emotions the other person is conveying. A person can also see the truth, honesty and understanding of a person through the eyes.

We should also look for a partner that is very understanding. It would be pretty irritating to find a judging partner. The partner should learn to accept the mistakes of the other in some cases and support him or her. This could be commonly displayed among the simplest of things. Such as where to dine, what to do or even having a great conversation.

The important thing to look for is the honesty and truth of a person. A relationship will not last very long when it is based on hidden agendas and lies. One partner may feel very jealous or have doubts about the relationship. So honesty is very important and is a hard one to develop.

It is a common misconception that people look for people like them. This might be true for some, but the more general truth is that we all just want a person that can be able to understand our own personality. (drdating)

By Graham Billingham

Believing In Love at First Sight

Love at first sight is something that many of us do no believe in until it happens to us. At some point, many of us have an experience where we walk into a room, a club, a friends house, wherever and we happen to lock eyes with someone so perfect that we cant look away. We are immediately filled with anticipation and excitement, and the eye contact continues throughout the night until you finally talk. When you finally do speak, you just seem to click. You like the same things, you finish each others sentences, and you are sure that this is what love at first sight is all about.

The love at first sight sensation is as real as the perfect person sitting in front of you, or so it seems. The way we react in a new relationship of any sort isnt always natural, so as you get to know one another better things may begin to seem not so perfect. Once you step outside of the overwhelming sensations of getting to know someone new you might realize that this isnt love at first site, but lust at first sight. And, thats not always a bad thing! Sometimes, the most intense lust can turn to love, so dont assume that you should just give up as soon as you realize its not real love at first sight.

Love at first sight is something that many people believe in because theyve had it happen to them. Others are a bit jaded because those that they thought were their love at first sight happened to be anything but a dream. Either way, its a powerful experience to have felt so connected to another individual so quickly that you were able to call it love. Whether it lasts is something that is totally individual and unique to each relationship, but it is possible. So, do you believe?